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The Male Memory
Babe and Honey. Inspired by real stories and real people. Finding the humor in imperfect situations with even more imperfect characters.
Inspired by T and J 2005. Sometimes remembering, isn’t quite as remembering as it seems.
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Bible of BS Case Study
The raised eyebrow.
The flash of confusion.
The quiet alarm when someone sees things slipping outside the expected pattern—especially when you’re the one changing.
When your growth becomes the disruption, that initial “What the hell is going on?” quickly shifts into “What the hell is wrong with you?”
Most people underestimate how derailing that moment can be.
When you’re at your most vulnerable—stepping into real transformation—the look can yank you right back into your old role, the one that made everyone else comfortable.
Naturally, it’ll come from those who wish you harm. But it’ll also come from strangers, coworkers—even the ones closest to you.
Have compassion for loved ones—they may not know how to support you yet.
As for those who belittle your progress — cut them loose.
Expect it. Recognize it. Prepare for it.“The Look” violates the commandments below
II. Thou Shalt Be Ignorant
They often don’t understand the why behind your change—and they don’t try to.
IV. Thou Shalt Be Unresourceful
Instead of supporting your growth, they give you a look. That’s the extent of their effort.
V. Thou Shalt Deflect
Their discomfort becomes your problem. The shift unsettles them, so they blame you.
VI. Thou Shalt Make Improper Assumption
They assume that just because it feels unfamiliar, it must be wrong.
IX. Thou Shalt Indecently Manipulate
That look may be their subtle way of pushing you back into the version of you they’re comfortable with.
X. Thou Shalt Have Indecent Regard for Others
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Just a Few Degrees
Lightly guide people when you have the chance. Those blind in the dark rarely take large steps if any at all. Big, forceful pushes tend to have them retreating in the opposite direction. You won’t be there to hold their hand the entire way (nor will they probably let you if you tried) so nudge them towards the right path however little it may be. Small course corrections, a few degrees at a time, can be the difference between finding the light… or blindly walking off a cliff.
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Leftover Steaks Done Right
No need to turn last night’s beautiful steak into a sandwich like so many people do. With the right technique, you can actually enjoy your leftover steak as steak—not some afterthought meal. The key is heating it slowly and evenly. This gentle approach brings the center up to the ideal temperature—usually a few degrees above the fat-melting point (around 115°F), but still 3–4 degrees below the steak’s original doneness (typically in the high 120s to low 130s).
Here are a few great low-and-slow methods to bring your steak back to life:
Sous Vide – If you have the gear, just set it to the steak’s original cooking temperature. It’s the easiest way to get a perfectly reheated result.
Butter or Oil Poaching – All you need is a pan that fits the steak and enough butter (or oil) to cover it. You’ll need some patience here—turn the heat on and off as needed, and stir occasionally to maintain a low temp. Some even say this method tastes better than the original, thanks to the rich, buttery infusion.
Microwave (Yep, Really) – Surprisingly effective. Set the microwave to its lowest power setting and warm the steak gently. It won’t brown, but it will reheat evenly without drying out. A thermometer gun is probably needed for this method, unless you can train your fingers to sense the right temperature.
Final Touch (Optional but Sexy) – If you want to level it up, blast a pan on high heat and give the steak a quick 30-second sear. Since it’s already browned, this just adds a glossy finish and a bit of sizzle.
With a low temperature reheat… the outside is only a touch warmer than the inside because of even heating 
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Top Thinker. Bottom Talker
The people who question themselves the most are often the ones growing the fastest.
If you’re wondering whether you’re enough – you’re probably more than most.
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The Good and Bad Relationship
Babe and Honey:
Babe and Honey. Inspired by real stories and real people. Finding the humor in imperfect situations with even more imperfect characters.
Perhaps there is, in fact, a better way and a worse way to approach relationships.
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Keep Shining
Never underestimate the power of your light. You never know whose path you may be saving from total darkness
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Bible of BS Case Study
Hindsight is always 20/20. So often the better solution is so elusive during the problem yet is so obvious after the fact. Be wary of those who show up after the dust settles, eager to lecture on how things should have been done, or worse, belittle others. These virtue-signaling spectators weren’t in the trenches. They didn’t face the chaos or the uncertainty. Chances are, they’d have been just as confused if they were part of the problem-solving process instead of just coasting in the aftermath.
Violating Commands – Acting like they would’ve nailed the perfect solution if only they were involved. Maybe. But probably not.
Misrepresentation – Their “know-it-all” energy is less about being helpfuland more about propping themselves up.
Indecent Regard – Dismissing others’ struggles with zero empathy isn’t just unhelpful—it’s simply not decent
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The French Mother Sauces Part II
Here are some dishes that showcase the five classic mother sauces, some surprisingly familiar
Béchamel – Biscuits and gravy with fried chicken
Velouté – Roasted chicken with gravy
Hollandaise – Seafood and vegetables with Béarnaise
Tomate – Grilled squid with tomato sauce
Espagnole – Braised oxtail with demi-glace
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True Wealth
True wealth isn’t measured by money, power, or fame—it lies in the health of the mind, body, and relationships. One who thrives in all three will always be richer than one who lacks even one. No amount of external success can compensate. At best, wealth and status may distract you, but they will never replace what truly matters.
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Things That Matter
Babe and honey. Inspired by real stories and real people. Finding the humor in imperfect situations with even more imperfect characters.
Never lose sight of the important things in a relationship.4mPost
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Expired Chains
here is an old wive’s tale that says elephants as calves, are secured with small ropes and sticks that effectively hold them in place. Even after growing into powerful adults capable of breaking free, they never attempt an escape because they remain conditioned to believe that the restraints will still hold them back.
While most agree this tale is largely anecdotal for elephants, it is 100% true for people. The beliefs that restricted you when you were younger may very well be a mere illusion. Re-evaluate the limitations that prevent you from being your ideal self, one tiny stick and rope at a time.