Aconchego






Funny thing — this isn’t theoretical for me.
Sometimes my fiancée and I get hit with that random, unexplained anxiety.
Nothing wrong. Nothing to fix. No trigger we can point to.
So one of us will just say (or yell):
“I NEED LOVE AND ATTENTION.”
We kiss.
We hold each other’s faces.
Full attention. No talking.
About 30 seconds later, the anxiety is gone.
Then one of us goes:
“Ok… you can leave now.”
😂
No insight gained.
No problem solved.
Just a nervous system that got what it asked for and clocked out.
If this works for babies…
and it works for adults…
Maybe a lot of “unexplained anxiety” isn’t fear at all.
Maybe it’s just the body asking for aconchego.